If He Doesn’t Wrap Before He Taps What Do You Do?

If your significant other does not want to use a condom before you consent in sexual intercourse you should not agree to have sex without a condom. Say no and remain strong to your answer no matter how much temptation will be present. By saying no you will be happy you did and you will not have to worry about the following:

·      STI’s

·      HIV/Aids

·      Pregnancies

·      Anxiety about whether or not you have any of the following listed above

If you or your partner agree that either of you do not want to use a condom there are steps to take to ensure you both are healthy and emotionally ready for this step.  Both of you need to talk about and agree to the following:

·      Talk about getting tested to make sure you both are clean of all diseases

·      Why don’t you want to wear a condom

·      Birth Control and Emergency Contraception’s

·      The chances of someone becoming pregnant has significantly increased

·      What if someone does become pregnant what will be the next step

·      Financial cost from pregnancy if this does happen

·      Emotional Attachments

The lists above are just reminders of the responsibilities that come with having sex and not wearing a condom. Sex is perfectly natural and normal but be sure to be prepared for the steps that come before and after sex, always plan carefully and even for the unexpected. Remember You Can’t Go Wrong With Your Shield On!

DON'T BE A FOOL, COVER YOUR TOOL.

Advantages:

• ·      The condom is the best method for reducing the risk of STIs for those who choose to have intercourse. (As always, abstinence is the only 100 percent guarantee.)
• ·      Allows men to share responsibility for pregnancy prevention and protection against STDs.
• ·      Can be easily obtained and does not require a prescription.

Disadvantages:

• ·      Some people are allergic to latex. Polyurethane condoms can be used as an alternative.
• ·      Some individuals argue that condoms reduce sensitivity and pleasure during intercourse.
• ·      Some people dislike interrupting sex to put it on.
• Condoms may break if they are put on incorrectly.

Things to Remember

• ·      The male condom cannot be used in conjunction with the female condom.
• ·      Condoms should not be used with oil-based lubricants such as petroleum jelly, Vaseline, or mineral and vegetable oil. Such lubricants damage the condom or increase breakage.
• ·      Condoms (particularly latex ones) should be protected from the heat, which can weaken them or cause breakage.